Hi all, I am sharing secret #14 Take Control. The next time someone asks you to do something, ask what they want and agree a time when you will deal with it, nit now. Get scribbling. Take five minutes to write down every...

Hi all,   I am sharing secret#13 If you have a number of options , allocate each alternative to a different number on a dice. If you are not happy with the number that comes up when you throw the dice then dismiss this option and roll again. Search out reliable expert...

Hi all, I am sharing secret #12 Be proactive. Don't wait for things to happen. Go out and seize the opportunity  Talk to people. The more information you gather , the more likely you are to find that lucky break. People need to know what you are looking for in...

Hi all, I am sharing secret #11 Know the facts but don't solely rely upon them - people make decisions for emotional reasons just as much as rational ones    Connect your ideas  to their priorities and they will make the decisions  for their reasons not...

Hi all, I am sharing Secret#10.. Say no at the beginning of the conversation. This will  set the context and avoid confusion. Give your reasons. Don't try to soften them in fancy language. The clearer the message the better. Listen to other people to show you...

Hi all, I am sharing secret #8 Instill trust . Be clear that you are trying to help them rather than boost your own ego or score points Ask questions. Get them talking early on. " How do you feel the dinner party went...

Hi all, I am sharing secret#7 Remember it will finish . Knowing that the heated moment you are in is definitely going to end and you will be calm again makes it easier to deal with.  Hunt down the root cause and extinguish...

Hi All, I am sharing Secret#6 Focus forward  What are the goals that would make you feel good if you achieved them : by the end of the week, and the end of the month? Work out what to do to make sure you get there...

Hi all, I am sharing secret #5 Think before you act . Its easy to get caught up in the wrong stuff. Thinking first means we do less but we do the right stuff. Have one to - do list for the whole week. Use it to focus on...