Ladies,

I have to share this with you all……I was having a very interesting conversation with a male friend recently and it lead me to ask him some very revealing questions that I know that many females will not believe is possible.

Guys fake orgasms too !!!

Lets keep this real, women do it , men do it too., and if you are shock that you are reading this subject matter on my blog, then you may need to take the rose cloured glasses off that you are wearing.

We live in a  society that needs to be more open and honest and SEX plays a big part in that world.

Why men fake it

The popular, if often unspoken, suggestion that all men can have an orgasm at just about any time and place is simply not true. There are many situations in which men can’t come and may find it necessary to fake their way through a sexual climax. Some of their reasons are akin to those women give for doing the same, the most common being not wanting to hurt their partner’s feelings.

• Most men can only climax once or twice before they close shop for the night. Not wanting to admit “defeat”, they may feel it necessary to pretend to come as vigorously on the third, fourth, fifth, sixth and sevenths attempts of a particularly energetic session of lovemaking as they did on the first. A similar situation may arise if they’ve spent the day masturbating before the main event.
• Some recreational drugs, an excess of alcohol, as well as prescription medication, including anti-depressants like Zoloft and Prozac, can cause a deflated libido and bouts of delayed ejaculation in some men.
• For many men, having an orgasm is very closely associated with their sense of masculinity and proof of being a “real” man. The associated pressure to perform, especially with a new partner, can sometimes be too much to handle. Rather than admitting “failure” they’ll just go through the motions without actually having an orgasm or having to talk to their partner about it.
• Simple physical or mental exhaustion and stress are common causes for men’s inability to reach a climax.
• There are several medical conditions which may make it difficult to ejaculate. A small number of men experience significantly delayed or inhibited orgasm and it can take them more than 45 minutes to reach a climax if they manage to get there at all. Diabetes and certain neurological conditions may contribute to the problem by lowering sensation in the penis.
• Some men struggle to come while wearing certain kinds of condoms or condoms that don’t fit them properly.
•  Some older men may find reaching an orgasm increasingly difficult.
• Men who have “learned” how to orgasm by masturbating in a way that is very different from conventional intercourse may find it hard to climax during sex with a partner and may have to re-learn their technique.