We’re always going to be disappointing someone or the other. It's just not possible to please everyone all of the time. While letting go of the need to please people, becoming comfortable with the discomfort that comes with disappointing others and being mindful of the other person's...
Our feelings are valid. But how often do you find yourself minimising, judging or rationalising your feelings? Every now and then or when you're not feeling good emotionally, take a moment to tune into your emotions and a) accept how you feel and b) acknowledge that it's okay...
Did you know that we’re all walking broadcasters? Whatever is going on inside of us, our thoughts and feelings, broadcast loud and clear, all the time, whether we like it or not! There’s no on/off switch. So, keep your thoughts and feelings in check, and broadcast what...
To create more harmony at home and at work, extend your cooperation. Be attentive to what is needed and be willing to contribute as needed. Be available to lend a hand and offer support and help. Be ready to share good feelings, no matter how...
We influence each other and the world around us, creating a ripple effect; like the ripples that spread when you throw a pebble into a pond. Some of the influence ripples out to a few, some to many; some of it effects change, some inspires;...
When someone you know ignores you, how does it make you feel? Hurt, angry…? Recognize and validate your feelings, and then, decide whether it’s best to talk it out with the person or let it slide. Being ignored often feels painful because we are so dependent...
Memories pop into our minds out of nowhere, bringing with them buried feelings. If it's a happy memory, it gives us a boost. If it’s not, it triggers the associated negativity, causing heaviness in our minds. When a negative memory comes up, accept it and then,...
What is an anagram of ‘listen’? ‘Silent’. Silence accentuates listening. Quiet the noise in your mind and you’ll listen better. Listen with a quiet mind and you'll hear the feelings behind the words. Until da next Tyme...
A lot of the time, we make decisions based on how we are feeling, and there's nothing wrong with feelings driving our decisions. But, some of our emotions can distort our thinking and perspective. To make better decisions, make decisions when you’re feeling your best. If...
At any given point, there's nearly always a difficult person in our life. We don’t necessarily have to like them, but we can try to have good feelings towards them. Cultivate good feelings towards the difficult person by thinking of one of their good qualities, and...
