Ask, Dont tell ….
No one likes being told what to do! Tell someone what to do and their ears close and mind switches off. It comes across as if you’re ordering or demanding. The next time you are ready to tell someone what to do, ask, don’t tell....
The role of familiarity …..
With the people we're really friendly and comfortable with, and with the people we spend a lot of time with, all too often our behaviour becomes too familiar, and as a result, respect and basic manners gradually disappear. This week, reflect and re-evaluate the...
Us and Others ……
Most of us are aware of what is and is not acceptable in how we allow others to treat us. But are we just as aware of what is and is not acceptable in how we treat others. When it comes...
Gaining self respect…..
We gain self respect when we live our values. Define the values that are truly important to you. Prioritise the values you would like to emphasise and live by, at all times. Live life aligned to your values; even when no one is...
To Pity or not to Pity …….
Good morning, When someone's going through a tough time, is your emotional response pity? Most of us don't like to be pitied because even if it's well intentioned, it comes across as condescending and demeaning. None of us want to make others feel that...
Respect Yourself
Good morning , Hey, you respect! Do you want people to respect you? If you want respect, respect yourself first. How do you expect others to respect you, if you don't respect yourself? Acknowledge your value, your talents & all the goodness that...
People Skills …….
Good Morning , I am constantly being asked how can I be the person that I am , how do I have such good people skills...
Real interactions……
Good afternoon all, Today's thought of the day is awesome, we all need to use it ;) When interacting with others, be REAL: Respect, Empathy, Accept, and Listen. Respect: notice the positives about others and recognise their intrinisic value. Empathy: understand...