If you want things to change, you have to change something.  If you change nothing, nothing changes.

Recognise

a) what you want to change,

b) what you can’t change

c) what you can change.

Then make the change happen, not with force, but with love. Force only holds for so long before it unravels, whereas love makes it easier to stay patient and determined through the process of change.

Until da next Tyme